Sunday, July 22, 2007

The Clare: More Signs of Progress, 7/21/07


The Clare continues to grow. From my amateur observations, I have concluded that the seventeenth floor concrete was being poured yesterday. The top view is from the east, just beyond the corner of Rush on Pearson Street

The lower view is from a bit further north on Rush Street. Soon I'll have to find a more distant viewing spot.

Photos by the Author.

Quote of the Day

"Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens." . . . Carl Jung, Psychologist

Wednesday, July 18, 2007

Writing Outlets for Seniors

As an advocate of writing for seniors, especially those who have never considered themselves writers, I am sometimes asked, "Where can I publish my work?" Of course we can submit our life stories, fiction, poetry, or anything else we write to the same web sites, contests, or publishers as anyone else, regardless of age.

Still, I like the idea of seniors writing for seniors. We don't always need younger people to give us information or advice! We need to examine our own lives and experiences and share them with our peers.

There are many web sites for those 50-plus. You can find them all with a search. But many of them emphasize on-line dating, expert advice, games, or any number of other things. There's nothing wrong with that, and many do offer individual journals, blogs, or web pages; each site has its strengths and weaknesses. However, I have two favorites for sharing my writing, not for money but for recognition and all the other rewards of writing.

The older of the two sites (but still relatively new) is eGenerations, "The Choice of the Experienced," at http://egenerations.com/ Of course I'm biased, since the site's co-founder and editor features and promotes my twice-monthly column about memoir writing there. This feature is quite new, but many members have already contributed various journal and memoir entries, and even fiction. Although this site welcomes anyone over 50, there are not a lot of us over-65 members yet. In a way, that's all right; we "oldsters" can help prepare the larger Baby Boomer generation for the future, and their ideas may help keep us young.

eGenerations is still undergoing development, and the editor listens to its members. We have a chance to help shape the web site with our comments, suggestions, even complaints. There are three other columnists, one on lifelong learning and two presenting "the lighter side." They do their jobs well. There are also videos and other features, with more coming. The site is easy to navigate, and if you have problems, there are videos to show you how.

If you're over 50 and want to try writing, join eGenerations and begin writing in either the memoirs or the journal section (which may ultimately be combined or renamed). You're likely to get comments and suggestions from me and from many other members.

The second site, very new, is The Elders Tribune, "Seniors Writing to Better Health," at http://elderstribune.com/. I assume that the "Better Health" being promoted includes both mental and physical well-being. This site is almost exclusively for the 65-and-over group, and its purpose is to welcome and present member-written articles and stories. The categories include Arts and Entertainment, Business, Fiction, Health and Spirituality, Lifestyle and Family, Non-fiction, Recreation, Technology, Writing, and Editorial, as well as an apparently all-inclusive "Other."

Right now, The Elders Tribune is offering its first contest, with a $100 prize for the best article or story. Readers will determine the winner with their votes. The winner must be 65 or older, although others may enter just for fun. The contest ends September 30, 2007, so there's still plenty of time to enter.

If you're at all interested, check out both of these sites; submit your writing. Writing and sharing your writing are, indeed, good for your health--and your happiness.

Copyright 2007 by Marlys Marshall Styne

Saturday, July 14, 2007

Seniors and Computers

I. For reasons obvious to anyone who has seen the real me or an unretouched photo lately, I am especially interested in media references to senior citizens, basically the over-65 crowd. I am a member of that "club."

According to an article by Mary Gale Hare in the Business section of the July 6 Chicago Tribune (originally from the Baltimore Sun), "Seniors [are] surging to [the] Internet."

"In recent years, seniors have been hooking up to the Internet at a rate that far outpaces the rest of the population." The number of American users over 65 jumped more than 160 percent since 2000, while no other age segment grew more than 70 percent during the same period.

Some seniors are seeking lower-priced goods, government help, and/or discounts. Others are seeking information or connections to their families or to other seniors.

"Advocates for older Americans believe the trend is crucial to maintaining a healthy life style. 'We would like to see those numbers go up and for seniors to be more engaged,' said Tiffany Lindquist, spokeswoman for the Maryland office of AARP. 'Computers are an important way to stay connected, and that's important to successful aging.'"

I spend a lot of time on the Internet, where I blog, do research, order things, and communicate with others, often vis the eGenerations web site ("The Choice of the Experienced - Boomers, Seniors, 50 Plus," http://egenerations.com/). However, I still read newspapers, magazines, and books. A few of my friends are still resisting computers (they are obviously not reading this), sometimes because they see the matter as an either-or choice versus print media or as a "new-fangled," hard-to-learn nuisance. 'Taint so. As one formerly reluctant 69-year-old computer buff who now helps teach senior computer classes in Maryland says, "Everybody gets a computer eventually." I hope so.

II. The July 5 Chicago Sun-Times featured an interview by Misha Davenport of Ruth Bender, a 90-plus suburban Chicago senior who received an honorary degree from Kendall College recently. Ruth lost her family in the Holocaust during the Nazi regime, but made a new life for herself in the United States.

Here, she got the education she had been denied in Germany. "I will never stop learning. Education is all around you. Every day you can learn something from young children or anybody. You just have to be willing to learn."

Ruth is obviously a fascinating senior. And this part of the story especially interested me: "I received my first computer at age 90. I am comfortable with technology and very happy with my computer. . . . My daughter keeps telling me about new sites and things. I want to experience everything for myself. I'm trying to stay young and keeping up with things on the computer is just one way of staying connected."

Bravo, Ruth. And if anyone reading this knows a senior who is still resisting computers, pass the word along!

Copyright 2007 by Marlys Marshall Styne

Friday, July 13, 2007

How Long do you Want to Live?

Scientist Aubrey de Grey, called a lunatic by some and a visionary by others, says that gerontologists want to understand aging but are not doing anything about it.

According to de Grey, old age is "engineering system failure," and with his seven-step strategy SENS (Strategies for Engineered Negligible Senescence), we could eliminate cellular damage and live to 125 and longer in disease-free bodies that do not age. Even some of de Grey's many critics praise him for "getting research scientists to think outside the box."

De Grey believes that "Aging kills 100,000 people a day. There is a moral obligation to combat cancer, diabetes, and other diseases. Aging is just the same."

Aubrey de Grey and his critics alike urge more government backing for aging-related medicine, "a concerted effort to slow aging." Some scientists have extended the lives of lab mice by 40 percent by cutting their calorie intake drastically. This would translate into an average human life expectancy of 112, but de Grey believes "humans might live to 1,000."

Of course the consequences for society would be huge: for example, twice as many U.S. retirees as working people and a retirement age climbing in 85. There's no need to worry anytime soon. Such extended life spans seem unlikely.

That said, this issue is interesting to think about. Would you want to live to 112 or beyond? Most of us seniors want to remain healthy, but could we handle the other possible consequences of living so long? I suspect that the answer for most of use would be a qualified "No."

Check out the SENS web site at http://www.sens.org.
Source: Matousek, Mark. "Long-distance Living," AARP The Magazine, July/August 2007.

Copyright 2007 by Marlys Marshall Styne

Wednesday, July 11, 2007

Support Net Neutrality!

People from across America are telling the FCC about the importance of protecting a free and open Internet. Check out this particular story:


http://www.savetheinternet.com/yourstory/300447


You can go to http://www.savetheinternet.com/yourstory and urge the FCC to protect Net Neutrality by telling your own story.

Older Women Looking for Romance? One Man's Opinion

Thanks to Ronni Bennett of "Time Goes By" (http://www.timegoesby.net/), here is a posting by The Old Rogue entitled "Why do Older Guys Like Younger Women?" If you're an older woman, you may have some comments to make, as Ronni has! Here is a quote from Old
Rogue. The link below will take you to the entire article.

"I've read a few posts from whiny women on other blogs about how pissed off they are because all the single men their age are looking for a younger woman. They say things like: 'Are they intimidated by us?' 'Are they suffering a mid-life crisis?' 'Don't they realize that younger women are just interested in their wallets?'

’”Most of you have bags under your eyes, wrinkly skin, stretch marks, and no matter how much you work out at the gym, your body pales in comparison to someone in their 20s or 30s. Besides, you probably have attitude and men hate women with attitudes.

"So quit the whining ladies and accept the facts. If someone your age has money, he isn't going to be interested in you."

http://theoldrogue.blogspot.com/2007/07/why-do-older-guys-like-younger-women.html

Monday, July 09, 2007

The Clare, July 6, 2007



The Clare at Water Tower, my future home, continues to grow at a rapid rate! Downtown Chicago construction is in full swing.

For a view from the top (the Loyola University Web Cam) go to http://www.luc.edu/webcam/clare/

Sunday, July 08, 2007

Older, Wiser, Happier: Good News for Seniors

"Brain scans now prove that as we age, we become increasingly optimistic." In a study from the University of Colorado Springs in which people were shown a series of unpleasant and cheerful images, "people over age 55 paid equal attention to both, while adults under age 25 focused more intently on gloomier shots."

According to the study's coauthor, Stacey Wood, PhD, "Being alert to negative information when we're young may help us survive. But as years go on and you make it through life's hardships, you gain the freedom to relax, expect good things, and fret less about bad ones."

Perhaps this explains why few seniors flock to horror movies as younger people do. I've met a few senior "worry warts," but for the most part, I agree: we've gained the freedom to relax, expect good things, and fret less. Despite its challenges, aging has its benefits as well.

Source: "Older, Wiser--and a Whole Lot Happier," by Amanda MacMillan in Prevention, August 2007.

Wednesday, July 04, 2007

Parade Memories and July 4th at Grandma's

My paternal grandmother lived in town, and that was exciting to me as a child. I grew up on a farm with visions of big-city skylines in my head; Whitewater, Wisconsin, did not qualify, but I considered it a step in the right direction.

The excitement there was the 4th of July parade. As I remember, it began on Main Street and turned down North Franklin street to the city park. Grandma lived on North Franklin Street.

I remember the joy of swinging back and forth on Grandma's front porch glider and admiring the passing bands and floats and marchers, feeling patriotic, and always munching on some snacks that my plump body surely didn't need.

As I look back, I realize that it wasn't much of a parade by today's standards. The "floats" began as farm wagons, trucks, cars, and even children's wagons, and the bands sometimes played out of tune. Still, the parade spirit was there. I loved the flags and the excitement.

As I recall, I've participated in only three or four parades during my lifetime. In those days on Grandma's porch, I dreamed of parading as an honored celebrity or Grand Marshal, but of course it never happened. In Whitewater, I wore an ill-fitting purple band uniform, played my clarinet, and marched with our fledgling high school marching band once or twice. Ours was the smaller of the town's two high schools, and as I remember, the larger one had a bigger, better band. I once rode on a farm wagon-based float that proclaimed "Education Reflects the Spirit of Liberty" on the side and featured an old-fashioned mirrored "crystal ball," dance hall style, in the center.

At Luther College, I remember riding on a homecoming parade float in a fancy new yellow gown. It rained that day, and what I remember best is that the dress was ruined by run-off from the blue crepe paper decorating the float. My parents were in the crowd to observe this spectacle. I can't remember either the theme of the float or the sponsoring organization, but it may have been either the drama group or the literary society.

Today, I enjoy parades vicariously on TV. I admire the flowers and the beauty of the Rose Bowl Parade floats, the hype and variety of the New York Macy's Thanksgiving Parade, and the marching politicians, commercialism, and enthusiasm of Chicago's many big parades.

Still, no parade quite provides the excitement of being "downtown" on Grandma's small-town front porch, swinging back and forth and eating. That experience was a generator of big dreams.

Copyright 2007 by Marlys Marshall Styne

July 6 postscript:
I just found pictures of this year's parade in Whitewater, Wisconsin! It appears that things have not changed as much as I imagined. To take a look, go to http://www.whitewaterbanner.com/